Have you read this post I wrote about defining your style by selecting your own set of style words?
If not, you may find it helpful if you struggle at all in the area of identifying what you love.
The post inspires you to find a collection of your own personal style words…. which is ever so useful, and also, ever so fun!
I share my own personal style words there as well. I find mine to be a huge guiding help for all sorts of purchases, and I really encourage you to jot down a list of your own personal style words.
To the point! In that post, I neglected to share the fact that I also have a “don’t buy” word.
The “don’t buy” word is important, because it will be your best friend while you are shopping for your home. And it will help you nail down what will have “staying power” in your home.
An example?? My “don’t buy” style word just happens to be: “cute.”
Here is why:
1. I tend to like cute things, {I mean, who doesn’t like cute things?}.
2. And, I also tend to pick cute things up in the store, thinking that I must take them home with me {I mean, who doesn’t want to take home cute things?}.
The problem is: that while I may LIKE cute things, I don’t truly LOVE them. And they also don’t help me toward my goal of a home that embodies:
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Sophisticated
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Simplicity
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Glamour
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Elegant
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Order
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Breathes
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Comfort
So, when I am perusing a web boutique, or if I am hoping to score at HomeGoods, I pose the question: Is it cute, darlene?
… if I can easily describe an item as “cute,” but not at all “sophisticated, simple, glamorous, elegant, etc.,” I put it back, knowing that it ultimately will not have “staying power” in my home.
Now don’t be swayed by my “don’t buy” word!
“Cute” may very well be on your primary list of style words. It is all about what YOU love… not what everyone else tells you to love.
this child’s bedroom is too cute for me, even for a child’s room… but maybe it is a dream for you!:
Can you think of any “don’t buy” words that would help you keep your personal style goals in check?
**Remember**
Pick a word that often leads to lots of dangerous and accidental purchases… or a word that describes things you tend to buy and LATER regret! That word will prove to be the biggest help to you while shopping.**
I would love to know your “don’t buy” word!
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